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spanking porn and erotic D/s

Pandora — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 15:57:00 +0000

I’d hoped to write today about the erotic scene I played with Tom at the weekend, but work is mental at the moment, so I won’t get the chance today. Partly this is because, after the ease with which I wrote yesterday’s post, I woke up this morning feeling unaccountably uneasy about its explicitness. As Adele pointed out on Twitter - this is my blog, and as the “not silenced” of my title suggests, I shouldn’t censor myself. But detailled writing about sex is rare for me, and when I attempt it, it leaves me strangely vulnerable. Not that sex is more intimate than spanking, but sex-writing isn’t my idiom, and attempting it involves stepping somewhat out of my comfort zone.

I guess I’m also partly worried I’m stepping out of yours. And I’m not sure, if I am, whether I care. Eroticism is very much part of my kink, and explicit sexual content is deliberately included in the spanking material I’m producing for myself. Some scenes need to be asexual to work - anything institutional and non-abusive - but I think there’s a place in spanking porn for sexual scenes as well, and not just the leery uncle or giggly girl-on-girl kind. I want to see hard, violent, D/s sex between real lovers, and given my own sex life frequently combines that with hot CP, I don’t see why they should be separated by default in porn.

Anyway, I didn’t come on here to go on about sex in spanking porn. I wanted to repost this delicious F/f photo which Chross linked last week, from free spanking photos:

I’m still trying to work out how to combine my queerness with my kink in a way that works for me, and when I stumble across a lesbian D/s photo that presses all my buttons, I devour it. I love the cool poise of the top, her tiny half-smile. I love the emotion in the sub’s posture, her twisting back, the hand resting calmly on the back of her neck. I can definitely imagine myself over this lady’s knee. And not only is that a hot, hot thought, it renews my hope that one day, I will find a way of submitting to women that feels right.

Imagining the reformatory

Abel — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 06:54:00 +0000

Sunday morning, lazing in bed. Our talk turned to reformatories. On their admission, I suggested, the girls would be lined up facing the wall, hands on heads, and ordered to remain silent. One of their number would be selected by an officer and taken into the adjoining room; the door would be shut firmly behind. The remaining [...]

Imagining the reformatory

Abel — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 06:54:00 +0000

rekindling: fantasy

Pandora — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 17:58:00 +0000

After a fallow period, it's always the sensual side of my kink to reawaken first.I was looking at the calendar to work out the last time I'd been spanked, and counted five weeks that I was sure of. No time at all to some. When I was in a long-distance ...

Abel’s Spanking Stories have a new home

Haron — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 06:53:19 +0000

As Abel has written before, his old story site is getting evicted because of the closure of Geocities. To give them a home while our new story site is being built* I have moved the site as was to our own domain. Thus I give you Abel’s Spanking Stories at their new (temporary) home. If you had [...]

In with the New: Harvest Edition

Bonnie — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 01:00:00 +0000

September is definitely a great time to launch a spanking-oriented blog. As proof, I offer you sixteen excellent new blogs. I invite all MBS readers to check these out. If you find something you like, I encourage you to share your words of praise a...

for sale / sold

Pandora — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 20:14:00 +0000

I was cycling home from work last week, when I caught sight of something out of the corner of my eye. It was so intriguing I had to pull over and walk my bike back along the pavement to get a closer look.Yes, that is an antique gym horse, displayed out...

The expanding circle

Abel — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 07:05:14 +0000

Jessica posted a rather miserable-sounding account last week on her blog, in which she described having had get-togethers cancelled by friends who prefer to meet up with newer folks in the scene. Being lucky enough to know her, and to have enjoyed many lovely scenes with her in different forms over the years, it set [...]

Recap: MBS Sunday Brunch for Sept 13

Bonnie — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 01:00:00 +0000

Our topic of the week was the role of trust in spanking relationships and how it can be developed and maintained. Here are your thoughts.Poppy: I think that couples must talk, talk and talk. Honesty and trust are habits and take constant work. Also, I...

MBS Spanko Brunch #191

Bonnie — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 13:00:00 +0000

The weekend is upon us at last. That means it's time for another spanko brunch. For those just joining us, the brunch is a weekly virtual get-together where we discuss a question related to our favorite subject. Everyone is welcome to join in. Ther...